I asked a friend of mine, Pat Sullivan, former St. Francis University basketball coach and author of a superb book, "Attitude The Cornerstone of Leadership," to write a column for my site because of his coaching expertise. Wow, did he deliver I am another disciple of the incomparable Gordie Gillespie and concur with everything Pat writes. You can read more about Pat and his work at his website - leadersattitude.com. Jack Perconte
I spent a decade directing basketball clinics throughout the country and had the great pleasure of working with some of the best coaches in the history of the sport. John Wooden, Dean Smith, and Bob Knight were among the coaches we had at the clinics. As great as these coaches were, I always felt that when I returned home to Joliet, Illinois and to Coach Gordie Gillespie that we had a coach here who was every bit as good as these legends.
I played for Gordie at Lewis University and coached with him for 25 years at the University of St. Francis. When Gordie passed, I wrote the following words about his legacy. It is my hope that as many young coaches as possible would read and appreciate what Gordie meant to so many of us. It also my hope that the coaches reading about the legacy of Gordie would learn what the profession is truly all about.
I hope you find the following to be both inspiring and enlightening.
On April 14th, 1926 God gave us a gift and what an incredible gift it was. Other than our parents, Coach Gordie Gillespie may have been the most important and the most influential person in the lives of the 4 to 5,000 athletes who played for him. No one will ever figure out how he made so many athletes feel like he was their second father.
Three quotes seem to be pertinent to Gordie:
"It's not what you gather, but what you scatter that tells what kind of life you have lived." Helen Walton.
"Preach the gospel; if necessary, use words." St. Francis of Assisi.
"There is no such thing as an ending; only a place where you leave the
story." Maggie Smith.
Gordie was not interested in what he might gather. He was interested in the goodness, the love, and the values he scattered to all those who crossed his path. After his passing, I could not believe the number of people who approached me to tell me of the kindness Gordie had shown them. And many of them had met him only once. I had no idea of the impact he had on those who hardly knew him.
Gordie coached college baseball, basketball, and high school and college football. He coached 110 seasons. For those of us who have coached, it is incredible to think about that accomplishment only. One season can take a great deal of energy! 110 seasons is unimaginable. He coached college baseball for 59 years, retiring at age 85. His teams won a total of 2,402 games and he was inducted into 18 Halls of Fame. As remarkable as those numbers are, they mean nothing when compared to the impact he had on the lives of the athletes he coached.
Ed Spiezio, an All-American baseball player for Gordie at Lewis University, went on to play in the Major Leagues for the Cardinals, the Padres, and the White Sox. Throughout his professional career, he played for a number of outstanding coaches. But he only called one coach, "coach." That title was reserved strictly for Gordie.
A common refrain among those whom he coached when they were confronted with various problems throughout their lives was, "What would Gordie do in this situation?" That is the respect that his players had for him.
When St. Francis wrote, "Preach the gospel; if necessary, use words," he could have been writing about Gordie. His impact did not come from his words; it came from who he was, the values he stood for, and the daily example he set.
His athletic values and his life values were one and the same. He wanted to win, not for himself, but for the kids he was coaching. It was never about him; it was about us. Winning was important, but winning the right way was more important. Any kind of cheating, taunting, or embarrassing your opponent was never acceptable.
He valued all-out effort and anything short of that was not tolerated. One of his favorite sayings was, "You're not tired, you just think you are." Fatigue had no place in his vocabulary. There was no excuse for not giving all you had, on and off the playing field.
When you made the last play of the game that led to a loss, the first person at your side was Gordie. He was there at the game's end and he was there when you experienced tough times in your life.
It was never what he said; it was what he did.
On March 20th, the Gillespie children organized a celebration of his life. Some of his children and men who played for Gordie shared his "stories." It was not an ending because most of us will continue to tell his story until the day we pass.
Three of us who played for Gord have met for breakfast once a week for the last decade. It is truly amazing how often a story of Gordie enters the conversation. I cannot see that ever ending. His teaching was that powerful and enduring.
The most poignant comment at this celebration came from Gordie's wife, Joan. Despite all the accolades and accomplishments, Joan said, "It was never about him; it was about you."
The only regret I personally have is that we have not been able to get ESPN to tell his story. Young coaches need to hear his story. They need to hear that your teams can win and you can love the kids you are coaching and be with them for the rest of their lives. It is precisely that care, concern, and love that lasts. Most of the wins will be forgotten.
In the movie, The Natural, Roy Hobbs is asked how would you like to be remembered and his answer is something to the effect that when he walks down the street that people would say, there goes Roy Hobbs, the best player ever to play the game. People, especially those of us who played for Gordie, would without hesitation say, "There goes Gordie Gillespie, the best coach who ever lived."
After playing major league baseball, Jack Perconte has taught baseball and softball since 1988 and offered valuable coaching training too. He has helped numerous youth players reach their potential, as well as having helped parents and coaches navigate their way through the challenging world of youth sports. Jack is one of the leading authorities in the areas of youth baseball training and coaching training advice.All Jack Perconte articles are used with copyright permission.
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